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The Latest: Holiday & Winter 2024-2025

It seems that my “Latest” posts have, of late, gone from being a quarterly/seasonal thing to a semi-annual thing. Yikes! So much to catch up on.

It was a momentous winter that began with the sale of our family’s “Playhouse” on Lake of the Ozarks. It became crystal clear to Wendy and me this past year that it was time. After 25 years in the family, and over 15 years as stewards of this thin place, we sold it to our friends Randy and Melissa from Pella. We know they will only make it better and continue to both be blessed and bless others with it as we have attempted to do these many years. Our friends Eric and Amy were gracious to drive down with us and help pack up the final load. So many memories got packed up in those boxes. We also took the opportunity to visit a couple of our favorite haunts: The Tavern at Trails End and The Branding Iron. Thank God Eric worked or United Van Lines back when he was working his way through school. I don’t know how we got it all in load!

Late fall and the holidays were special, as always. We got to enjoy football, friends, and family. We celebrated Milo’s 7th birthday with the VLs and Papa Dean. Milo especially loved having light saber fights with the VL boys, which meant that Papa enjoyed a respite from Milo’s incessant desire for “Jedi training.” Wendy and I had friends over for an en-joy-able dinner to celebrate her birthday. Our friends Matthew and Sarah treated us to dinner and an evening with C.S. Lewis in Des Moines.

We were sad that Madison, G, and MJ were unable to make the journey from South Carolina to join us for Christmas this year, but we had plenty of family including my dad, two siblings, niece Emma, as well as Taylor’s crew. I introduced Sylvie and Milo to the joy of bellying up to the bar at Vander Well Pub for a Shirley Temple. That’s become a highlight of any and every visit to Papa and Yaya’s house. We were also blessed to have a bunch of Wendy’s siblings home for Christmas at the Halls, including Suzanna and her two wee ones.

New Year’s Eve weekend began with the annual Vikings-Packers family smackdown with our nephew Sam and his burgeoning crew. So fun to have niece Emma join us again this year. It’s always fun when the Vikings win the big rivalry! 😉

New Year’s Eve itself was uneventful this year as Wendy and I delayed celebration of our 19th wedding anniversary for the early February cruise we’d been planning for almost two years.

Late last summer I was asked to step back into leadership at Union Street Players, Pella’s Community Theatre. This is my twelfth term as President. Wendy and I haven’t really been involved for the past 6-8 years. The organization is facing multiple challenges including the moving and setting up of our Costume Shop to a new location which has been a monumental task.

The challenges haven’t always been a lot of fun, but what was a lot of fun was getting back on stage in a show for the first time since 2016. I got to play Major Metcalf in Agatha Christie’s The Mousetrap which is one of the most legendary shows in stage history. It’s been running continuously on London’s West End for over 70 years and 70,000 performances, and Wendy and I got to see it in London the last time we were there. Rehearsals began in early January, and I thoroughly enjoyed the experience with both cast and crew. It was fun to be back on stage with old theatre comrades as well as sharing the stage with some talented young actors.

When Wendy and I were engaged 20 years ago, we planned a honeymoon in New Orleans. Neither of us had been to NOLA and we were really looking forward to it. Then came hurricane Katrina which blew away our honeymoon plans along with everything else. We shifted our honeymoon to San Antonio and vowed that someday we’d make it to New Orleans.

A couple of years ago, Wendy found an incredible deal on a cruise leaving out of the Port of New Orleans. We figured it would be a fun way to celebrate our 20th Anniversary a little early. So, we planned a week in NOLA followed by a seven-day cruise to the southern Caribbean.

What we DIDN’T plan on when Wendy booked the trip almost two years before was that the SUPER BOWL would be in New Orleans the DAY AFTER our cruise pulled out of port. When our time share couldn’t guarantee us a room on the night before the ship left port we thought, “No problem! We’ll just get a hotel room that night.” We then found there was only ONE hotel with a room available in New Orleans that night and it was charging well-over $1000 a night. “WHAT?!” So, we ended up driving an hour outside of New Orleans for the final night of our week in NOLA and then got to fight the Super Bowl crowds and parade to get to our ship. Happy to say we made it.

We enjoyed NOLA, though both Wendy and I both agreed that we can check it off the bucket list. Neither of us feel a need to return. The highlights were the World War II museum which is a must-see for anyone who loves history. We breezed through it in one day, though I could have easily spent three days taking it all in. We also love, Love, LOVED Preservation Hall. We also enjoyed Schnitzel’s on Bourbon Street and felt compelled to stop at Lefitte’s Blacksmith Shop which is tabbed as the oldest pub in America, dating to the 1700s. That still can’t hold a candle to the Brazen Head in Dublin that was serving pints during Crusades, but still fun. Yes, the beignets at Cafe Du Monde were the bomb, and I got a selfie with the Oscar-Meyer wiener mobile which I can check off my bucket list, as well!

As we were walking down Bourbon Street early one afternoon we happened upon the Lombardi Trophy that was being photographed and videotaped for promotional purposes before the Super Bowl. Nabbed a selfie. Probably the closest I’ll ever get to it. It was also sobering to spend a few minutes at the impromptu street memorial for those killed by a terrorist in the wee hours this past New Year’s Day.

One of the unexpected surprises was finding out that the subject of one of Wendy’s favorite artworks (it hangs in our dining room) is actually in New Orleans. We didn’t know that until we saw some paintings of it inside a local artists’ venue. One of the only “weeping angel” monuments in the world is inside a private family mausoleum in one of NOLA’s famed above ground cemeteries. We found it, and while the mausoleum was locked, we were able to peer inside and take a photo.

The cruise was also the highlight of our vacay. Wendy and I absolutely love cruising, and we are content to simply enjoy being at sea, in our state room, and on our room’s verandah. The only time either of us got off the ship on the seven-day excursion was when I disembarked in Porto Costa Maya for a tour of some Mayan ruins, which had been a bucket list item for me since World History class in high school.

We returned home to enjoy the first Spring in 15+ years that we weren’t feeling the responsibility of getting down to the lake and getting the Playhouse ready and stocked for a busy summer season. We’ve enjoyed dinners with friends, time with family, having Milo and Sylvie spend weekends with us, and working on home projects at Vander Well Manor that we’ve been putting off for far too long. Our Sunday Evening “neighborhood” has enjoyed watching Bad Sisters together and is now enjoying Season 2 of 1923. I got to go flying a few weeks ago with our friend Eric and enjoy a gorgeous spring afternoon in Iowa which was a real treat.

The family is all doing well.

My dad celebrated his 88th birthday in March. Not bad for someone who was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma over ten years ago and was told he might not make it more than another three or four years. His stained-glass work continues to be in demand and keeps him busy. He’s even taken some painting classes in his retirement community. We love having him in worship with us on Sundays and having him bring us some of his fresh baked goods.

Grandkids continue to grow like weeds and we enjoy every moment we get with them. We’re looking forward to enjoying Pella Tulip Time this year as we’ve handed-off our annual roles as Pella’s founding couple. We get to just enjoy the annual festival without responsibilities this year.

Listening Opportunities

Hey friend, I hope your weekend is going well! I wanted to thank my friend Reuel Sample at the Pastor’s Voice Podcast for inviting me to be a guest this past week. I had a fantastic time and look forward to future conversations. You can listen online at thepastorsvoice.net and you can subscribe to the podcast on your favorite podcasting platform.

Below you’ll find my latest message from this past Sunday. Don’t forget that there’s an archive of past messages on the Messages Page at tomvanderwell.com.

The Latest: Fall 2021

A hot, dry summer this year gave way to a hot, dry autumn here in Iowa. I don’t remember many October days in years past with temps in the 90s. In fact, our sump pump unknowingly died somewhere amidst the summer drought. When the fall rains finally came, we got to enjoy some flooding in the basement. Ugh!

September is our favorite time at the lake. The summer crowds are gone and things are much quieter, yet the weather remains very enjoyable. After our friends left on Labor Day, we stayed to enjoy some time, just the two of us.

“Hevel. Everything is hevel,” says the teacher.

Other than that, the fall has been quite enjoyable for Wendy and me. Wendy continues to take good care of her 94-year-old grandmother checking in on her during the week, taking her to appointments, and helping her with her daily needs. I became a certified Enneagram coach, which has been fun. Business travel is beginning to happen again. I made a trip to Texas in October and made a stop at one of my favorite places on earth for some much-needed quiet time.

With our beloved Cubs tanking early, our attention turned to football. We enjoyed getting out to both high school and college games. Our friends, Kev and Beck invited us to enjoy the entire college game day experience complete with tailgating before the evening game. The Cyclones even won in spectacular fashion, which was nice.

One of the joys of living life with our dear friends is the opportunity to be part of their children’s lives. Wendy and I felt so honored when our young friend, Harry, told his parents that on his 21st birthday he would like to have his first legal adult bevies with his parents, Wendy and me. We started the celebration at two of our favorite local watering holes and ended the evening back at the Vander Well pub. Fun to be part of another one of the young man’s rites-of-passage.

I was blessed with some of the best college professors back in the day. For the last three years majoring in theatre at Judson College, my Theatre prof was David McFadzean, who was not only one of the best theatre people I’ve ever worked with but was also a personal mentor in so many ways. Dave got his break and has done well as a Hollywood writer and producer. I was pleasantly surprised to get a call letting me know he and his wife, Liz, were making a cross-country road trip and had plans to spend a night in Pella. They came over for dinner and we enjoyed such a lovely evening catching up, talking theatre, and swapping stories.

Meals with friends has been sort of a theme for us this fall. One of my oldest and dearest of friends (and Taylor and Madison’s godfather) has been back in Iowa to help care for an ailing parent. He and I have been able to meet regularly for lunch, and it’s been fun to hang out with him and his son.

The Vander Well pub has also been a regular gathering place for friends, which makes us so happy. Just a few weeks ago we enjoyed a fun night out with the adults. Dinner out with cocktails and nightcaps at the pub. And, Wendy got to sport her awesome new boots.

One of our favorite things over the past couple of years is charcuterie nights. Wendy is quite gifted at putting out an amazing spread. It was so much fun to host friends for an evening of trying lots of different things while we swapped stories. I especially loved the story of our friends who met and were married in three weeks. A few weeks before charcuterie night, we were honored to be in their home to celebrate their 50th anniversary and I was asked to lead in a prayer of blessing over them. So much fun!

In family news, we were blessed to add two nephews to the growing brood. Wendy’s sister Suzanna, and her husband Chino, brought Ian into the world. Wendy’s brother Lucas, and his wife Brooke, brought Owen into the world. We can’t wait to meet Ian when we visit Mazatlan in January, and we loved having Owen visit us with his sister Anya.

The Scotland crew have been enjoying their fall in the gorgeous Scottish countryside. Milo continues to love dinosaurs and Transformers. They had a great visit to the Natural History Museum. Milo is also enjoying Rugby Tots, which Ya-Ya and Papa think is the coolest thing ever.

The South Carolina crew is also doing splendidly. Madison and G were able to take an overdue honeymoon trip to the Dominican this fall. Our fur-grandchild, Bertha, had hip surgery and is recovering well. Hazel is growing fast, as well.

I’m writing this post from the lake. For many years we’ve enjoyed annual spring and fall weekends with our friends, Kev and Beck. Busy lives and Covid have kept us from doing so for the last couple of years so it’s nice to be enjoying a lake weekend together again. Last night we enjoyed a dinner invitation from friends Dave and Lola, who also have a place at the lake. Dave smoked some salmon and we spent hours at the table. I so loved Lola’s comment as we grudgingly accepted the fact that the evening needed to end: “We could sit here and talk non-stop for twenty-four hours.” Indeed. It was our kind of night.

Did I mention Wendy’s awesome new boots? Cheers!

Wayfarer Podcast Now on Amazon Music

I’m glad to announce that the Wayfarer Podcast, complete with both Chapter-a-Day and Wayfarer Weekend episodes is available on Amazon Music. If you have an Amazon Music subscription you subscribe via the following link:

https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/f38edda8-bf57-4307-a1b3-ffa92da9a878/wayfarer

The Wayfarer Podcast is available on virtually all Podcast platforms including Apple, Google, Anchor, Overcast, and Spotify. Be sure to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform to get every episode of the Wayfarer Podcast sent directly to your mobile device!

Wayfarer Podcast Now on Spotify!

Hey everyone. Just a quick note to let you know that I’ve changed my podcast host from WordPress (the host of my blog) to Anchor, which will distribute the podcast to various platforms using a new feed.

Bad news: If you subscribed previously on Apple iTunes or GooglePlay then you will likely not be getting new episodes until both of those platforms change to my new feed. Sorry. I will continue to post the audio at the top of each chapter-a-day post so you can always listen to it there.

Good news: Anchor has already established the new feed on Spotify for those of you who are on Spotify. Simply for “Wayfarer” or “Tom Vander Well” under “Podcasts” on Spotify and click “Follow.”

As always, thanks for following along. Cheers!

A Week Off

Wendy and I are taking some time off and will be largely unplugged. I plan to return Jun 9 0r 10. Cheers!

Boxes and Briefs

Moving BoxesI realize that I have posted very little from our personal journey in recent weeks, and I admit that this has been largely by intent. The truth of the matter is that life for Wendy and me has fallen into a very monotonous pattern and there is very little interesting to tell. I’ll give you a brief summation.

We are less than four weeks from our moving date. We closed the sale of our house on Columbus Street in mid-January and are renting back from the new owners, a wonderful couple who are riding the deep of winter out in their RV down south somewhere. Our new house has taken far more time and energy than we ever imagined as we make a seemingly endless number of decisions about an infinite number of small details. I feel awful complaining about such a huge blessing, but I really am weary of it all.

Wendy has been packing like a mad woman. We’d put about half of our lives in storage when we put our house for sale last fall, now the majority of the other half is sitting in boxes as we pare down to only those essentials we need for the next few weeks. Life is in full transitional mode.

I have been teaching a class called The Language of God on Wednesday nights at our church. I am transitioning into a volunteer role of helping coach and mentor a team of men and women who will be teaching and preaching on a regular basis in our church auditorium. This has meant more regular opportunities for me to teach, as well.

Wendy has been absolutely amazing with all of the house and moving plans. It’s overwhelming for her as well, but she has done an incredible job managing all of the details and keeping me on task (which is a exhausting task in and of itself).

Suzanna was cast in the starring role of USP’s production of Anne of Green Gables and has been busy learning more lines than she’s ever had to memorize before. The production is scheduled for the weekend that we move. She is still working three part time jobs and saving money for college next fall.

Taylor is in her second semester at the University of Edinburgh and doing well. She got a part time job working at a coffee shop and is desperately looking for a “placement” with an art festival to fulfill her master’s requirements.

After taking some time off from college, Madison started back at University of Colorado at Colorado Springs this past month while continuing to work as a flight attendant for SkyWest Airlines. Flying the friendly skies has both its pros and cons, but she is grateful for the opportunity and the travel perks. We are too, as we get to see her a little more often!

I continue to recover from a hotel room robbery that stole my entire personal and vocational electronic lives. This has meant a lot of hours rebuilding, restoring, and reporting claims. Ugh.

Anyway, that’s the skinny.

Cheers.

So, I Wrote a Play. Here’s Your Invitation to See It.

Ham Buns Poster

So, in case you haven’t heard, I wrote a play and it’s being produced by Union Street Players here in Pella. If you’re in the area I would love to have you come see it.

Pella Community Center
712 Union St.
Pella, IA 50219
Thu-Sat April 10, 11, 12 @ 7:00 p.m.
Sun April 13 @ 2:00 p.m.

Tickets are $8 in advance for adults ($10 at the door) and $6 in advance for students ($8 at the door).

Tickets are available on-line by clicking HERE, and can also be purchased at the door of any performance. If you need assistance contact USP’s virtual box office 641.204.1094.

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A Little Rest from Reading

One of the assignments this week in the class I’m teaching is “reading deprivation.” We are being called on to substitute the time we might normally read books, newspapers, blog posts, facebook feeds, and etc. to pursue other activities and endeavors. So, I’ll be taking a week off of my normal morning routine and chapter-a-day posts. FYI.