Welcome with open arms fellow believers who don’t see things the way
you do. And don’t jump all over them every time they do or say
something you don’t agree with—even when it seems that they are strong
on opinions but weak in the faith department. Remember, they have their
own history to deal with. Treat them gently. Romans 14:1 (TM)
I’ve been a member in and served in a host of churches and denominations. In practically every church I’ve been in, there has been conflict over two issues: to clap or not to clap and raising your hands in worship.
Clappers and hand raisers are demonstrative in worship, taking literally the Bible’s admonition to – well – clap and raise your hands. Clappers and hand-raisers can be a bit snooty in their zealous worship style with those who don’t buy into their free expression with God.
The hands-at-your-sides-or-in-your-pockets crowd feel that all the noise and demonstrative worship does nothing but draw attention away from God and on to the worshiper. They can be a bit judgmental and self-righteous in their dignified piety.
Chill. Both of you. You’re both being silly and ignoring God’s word in Romans 14. It’s really a great chapter and well worth clicking on the link above to read all of it in The Message. And, while I use clappers and non-clappers as a relatively safe example, it would also be a good idea to read for any two camps within the body:
Catholics and Protestants
Pentecostals and Non-Pentecostals
Evangelicals and Main-liners
Drinkers and Abstainers
Republicans and Democrats
Meat-eaters and Vegans
Christian Rockers and the Hooked-on-Classics Crowd
King James and NIV’ers
and on…
and on…
and on…
What’s important in all this is that if you keep a holy day, keep it
for God’s sake; if you eat meat, eat it to the glory of God and thank
God for prime rib; if you’re a vegetarian, eat vegetables to the glory
of God and thank God for broccoli. None of us are permitted to insist
on our own way in these matters. It’s God we are answerable to—all the
way from life to death and everything in between—not each other. That’s
why Jesus lived and died and then lived again: so that he could be our
Master across the entire range of life and death, and free us from the
petty tyrannies of each other. Romans 14:6-9 (TM)