A Parent’s Blessing

Profession_of_faithAs a parent, you spend years hoping, praying, fretting, and sweating. What will happen to this fragile little baby cradled in my arms? What will she become? Will she make the right choices? Will she go off the deep end? What happens when I can’t control her any more? What will happen when she’s old enough to walk away?

This past year our church offered students the opportunity to take a "profession of faith" class. Unlike the confirmation class that was mandatory for all 7th graders in my church when I was a kid, this class was the students choice. This was their own decision and a chance to say, "This is what I believe."

It was pretty cool to watch Taylor and Madison, along with many other high schoolers, step up on Sunday morning to make their profession of faith. I have to be honest; this dad got a little "misty" to see how my babies have grown, and what honorable young women they have become.

Good stuff.

Chapter-a-Day Psalm 58

Trophies Everyone cheering, "It’s worth it to play by the rules! God’s handing out trophies and tending the earth!" Psalm 58:11 (TM)

"Nice guys finish last," they say, and I find that it’s often true. On the playground, in school, in politics, in sports and in the workplace, it seems that life favors those who push, cheat, buy or sleep their way to the top. Yet, Jesus was very clear about the fact that God’s economy operates quite differently. In God’s Kingdom "the last shall be first."

Hang in there. Keep pressing on.

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Chapter-a-Day Psalm 57

WorshipI’m ready, God, so ready, ready from head to toe, Ready to sing, ready to raise a tune:  "Wake up, soul! Wake up, harp! wake up, lute! Wake up, you sleepyhead sun!" Psalm 57:7-8 (TM)

How often am I "ready" for worship? I wouldn’t say that I’m often "not ready," but I must also admit that I don’t always prepare myself. Going to worship is often something I simply do on Sunday morning. I wonder how much more I would get out of it if I started preparing my heart for it on Saturday. I wonder if it would take on a whole new meaning if I and my heart were "ready" to worship when I walked through the door.

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Reflections on Being a Cubs’ Fan: “You Gotta Have Heart”

Summer2004_025My wife and I have looked forward to the coming of spring and the beginning of another season for the Chicago Cubs. We’ve watched their first three games, and our hopes are high. It’s a new season. The slate is clean. This could be our year.

Opening day was a heartbreaker, as our beloved Cubbies raised our spirits on the wings of a Kosuke Fukudome three-run dinger to tie the game in the bottom of the ninth only to dash them to the ground when they gave up the winning run in the tenth.

The second game was nine innings of frustration as our boys were one-step short, one swing behind, one bobbled-ball late through all nine innings.

That’s okay. I turned to Wendy and consoled her. "It’s a long season," I assured her.

"Good thing," she said.

"Yeah. Good thing," I repeated, assuring myself.

We’re good that way – Cubs fans. You’ve got to keep your chin up. You’ve got to put a positive spin on ball four. Optimism is required on the resume. So is thick skin. It takes character to be a fan of Chicago’s Northsiders.

In preparation for the season I watched Ken Burns’ documentary Baseball. It’s a good history of the game if you like an East Coast perspective. Sure, there’s the occasional mention of a Midwest club. There’s the passing nod to Hall-of-Famers from the fly-over states. There’s the off-hand mention that St. Louis or Minnestoa won a World Series or two. But mostly it’s about teams from New York and Boston.

Early on the documentary did mention the 1908 Chicago Cubs’ World Series winning, double-play threesome of Tinker to Evers to Chance and then promptly brought in a snooty commentator to explain that they really weren’t that good. The Cubs are barely mentioned in the rest of the marathon East Coast love-fest.

Don’t get me wrong. I acknowledge that the Yankees are the winningest club in baseball. I admit that the story of the Dodgers, the signing of Jackie Robinson and their heartbreaking departure for Los Angeles is compelling. I will capitulate that the Curse of the Bambino and the Red Sox eighty-six year World Series drought is a great yarn.

Yet, the eight-six year suffering of Boston fans pales in comparison to the Wrigley Field faithful who, this year, celebrate…or is it mourn…an entire century with an empty trophy case. Boston’s storied Royal Rooters have nothing on the indomitable spirit of the Bleacher Bums. Boston survived the Bambino’s curse, but Cubs fans are gutting out an unholy trinity of curses (the goat, the black cat, and the Bartman ball).

Mention that you are a Cubs fan and you receive responses that vary from pity on one end ("Awwww, look at the loveable loooooser!") to outright gleeful condemnation on the other ("Are you serious?! Dude, I’d show you how many World Series the Cardinals have won but I don’t have enough fingers! Ha, ha, ha, ha!). That’s just part of the program.

They say what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. Does that make Cubs fans comparable to Superman or Popeye juiced on HGH? You know that’s not true. What is true is that what hasn’t killed us has given us heart. Our boys of summer have given us a cardio workout like no other team in the Major Leagues. Our hearts have regularly been pounding off the rate charts only to be stopped short just this side of cardiac arrest. 2003, 1998, 1989, 1984, 1969…talk about a baseball fan’s aerobic workout.

"You Gotta Have Heart – miles and miles and miles of heart," goes Broadway tune goes in Damn Yankees! Yankees?! What do they know? The Yankees don’t need heart. Ask George Steinbrenner.

For my money (and, granted, it’s no where near what Steinbrenner has), I’ll give the award for the most heart to the Chicago Cubs faithful. In fact, think about that – the Cubs’ faith-ful. That’s what being a Cubs’ fan requires – faith. At the root of a Cubs’ fan’s heartsworn loyalty is unwavering faith.

The Good Book says that faith is "the assurance of things hoped for."

We get that.

The third game of the opening series was a winner. Ramirez homered. Dempster settled down into a solid outing. Wood got his first save in his new role as Closer. The "W" flag was raised above Wrigley Field for the first time this year as the Cubs’ faith-ful sang "Go Cubs, Go!".

Yep. I believe this is the year.

Chapter-a-Day Psalm 56

Give_thanksGod, you did everything you promised, and I’m thanking you with all my heart. Psalm 56:12 (TM)

Thank you. They are simple, short words that we often forget to utter. This afternoon I will stand in front of a group of business people who spend much of their day on the phone with the very folks who make their pay checks possible. I will remind them to say "thank you" because no matter how well our mothers and fathers taught us – no matter how well we know it – we too often forget those simple, short words. Why does grace seem to always give way to a sense of entitlement.

Jesus has forgiven my countless, ugly sins.
Jesus has overlooked my stupidity.
Jesus has answered my prayers.
Jesus has blessed me.
Jesus died for me.
Jesus lives.

Thank you.

Creative Commons photo courtesy of Flickr and Gisela Giardino

Chapter-a-Day Psalm 56

Give_thanksGod, you did everything you promised, and I’m thanking you with all my heart. Psalm 56:12 (TM)

Thank you. They are simple, short words that we often forget to utter. This afternoon I will stand in front of a group of business people who spend much of their day on the phone with the very folks who make their pay checks possible. I will remind them to say "thank you" because no matter how well our mothers and fathers taught us – no matter how well we know it – we too often forget those simple, short words. Why does grace seem to always give way to a sense of entitlement.

Jesus has forgiven my countless, ugly sins.
Jesus has overlooked my stupidity.
Jesus has answered my prayers.
Jesus has blessed me.
Jesus died for me.
Jesus lives.

Thank you.

Creative Commons photo courtesy of Flickr and Gisela Giardino

Chapter-a-Day Psalm 55

Ozarks Get me out of here on dove wings; I want some peace and quiet. I want a walk in the country, I want a cabin in the woods. I’m desperate for a change from rage and stormy weather. Psalm 55:7-8 (TM)

Everyone needs a break now and then. Vacations are great. Wendy, the girls and I sat down with calendars the past few weeks to try and plan some peace and quiet on the Lake of the Ozarks this summer. The raging schedules of four busy people make it difficult to schedule.

<sigh>

Sometimes peace and quiet must happen in the midst of the storm. A moment of quiet, eyes closed can be a welcome respite for me. Running an errand in the car can become a few moments of quiet if I choose to turn my phone, radio, iPod, and navigation system off. A short, solitary walk away from the desk can become just the moment of rest I need to carry on. I remember Jamie Fox’s taxi driving character in the movie Collateral would keep a picture of a tropical island on the back of the visor in his cab. He would pull the visor down, visualize himself there, and drift away.

We will have some quality time by the lake this summer. In the meantime, a quiet walk to the coffee maker – or around the block – will have to be my Walden Pond.

Chapter-a-Day Psalm 55

Ozarks Get me out of here on dove wings; I want some peace and quiet. I want a walk in the country, I want a cabin in the woods. I’m desperate for a change from rage and stormy weather. Psalm 55:7-8 (TM)

Everyone needs a break now and then. Vacations are great. Wendy, the girls and I sat down with calendars the past few weeks to try and plan some peace and quiet on the Lake of the Ozarks this summer. The raging schedules of four busy people make it difficult to schedule.

<sigh>

Sometimes peace and quiet must happen in the midst of the storm. A moment of quiet, eyes closed can be a welcome respite for me. Running an errand in the car can become a few moments of quiet if I choose to turn my phone, radio, iPod, and navigation system off. A short, solitary walk away from the desk can become just the moment of rest I need to carry on. I remember Jamie Fox’s taxi driving character in the movie Collateral would keep a picture of a tropical island on the back of the visor in his cab. He would pull the visor down, visualize himself there, and drift away.

We will have some quality time by the lake this summer. In the meantime, a quiet walk to the coffee maker – or around the block – will have to be my Walden Pond.

Chapter-a-Day Psalm 54

SolitudeListen, God—I’m desperate. Don’t be too busy to hear me. Psalm 54:2 (TM)

One of the many things I appreciate about God is that He is always listening. I, like David, might feel as if I have to beg him to do so in my emotional desperation. Nevertheless, He is always listening. When I mutter a prayer at my desk, He’s listening. When I pray before a meal, He’s listening. When I’m in the car on the road, He’s listening. When I’m on my bed at night, He’s listening.

The question really isn’t "Is God listening?" The question is "Am I talking to Him?"

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Chapter-a-Day Psalm 53

Bilious and bloated, they gas, "God is gone." It’s poison gas— they foul themselves, they poison Rivers and skies; thistles are their cash crop. God sticks his head out of heaven. He looks around. He’s looking for someone not stupid— one man, even, God-expectant, just one God-ready woman. Psalm 53:1-2 (TM)

"The more things change the more they stay the same," the saying goes. It’s amazing how David writes song lyrics 3,000 years ago that are as apt today as ever. There will always be those who refuse to believe. I’ve always thought that it takes more faith to believe that a universe, a world, a body of such intricate design happened by chance than it does to believe in God.

Wendy shared this movie trailer with me. It seemed appropriate to today’s Psalm.