Direction and Mess

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“I am about to go the way of all the earth,” [David said to Solomon] “So be strong, act like a man, and observe what the Lord your God requires: Walk in obedience to him, and keep his decrees and commands, his laws and regulations, as written in the Law of Moses. Do this so that you may prosper in all you do and wherever you go…”
1 Kings 2:2-3 (NIV)

Just over 20 years ago, the founder of our company retired. I became one of two owners. Looking back, I can honestly tell you that there was a lot that I did not understand about the role and responsibility that I inherited. On the surface, it appeared a simple and easy transition from employee to owner. That was not the reality.

Underneath the surface, there were messes. At some point, they had to be addressed. There was a sobering life lesson for me in that season of life’s journey. Even more sobering was the lesson that if you don’t deal effectively with the messes, they eventually compound into additional messes. I learned that lesson the hard way.

Today’s chapter is a similar transition. David dies after a forty-year reign. There’s divine meaning in that number. Forty is one of those biblically resonant numbers. It is associated with a complete generation or period: Moses’ forty years, Israel’s forty years, David’s forty years, and Solomon will eventually reign for forty years. The narrator is closing an era. Samuel’s great Davidic saga is over. Now begins the age of Solomon.

David’s charge to Solomon is to be strong and become a man. But notice how David immediately defines what that means. He doesn’t say, “Show everybody who’s boss.” He tells Solomon to walk in God’s ways. Keep his statutes. Keep his commands. Strength is immediately tethered to covenant obedience.

David has left messes that he never personally dealt with. Solomon must clean them up. Some were obvious. Others presented themselves.

Jewish tradition has a concept of justice known as middah k’neged middah that translates as “measure corresponding to measure.” God’s justice often takes a form that corresponds meaningfully to the original action. It isn’t merely “you did something bad, therefore something bad happens to you.” The consequence frequently echoes the deed. There is a poetic symmetry to justice.

It echoes throughout today’s chapter.

It’s particularly striking with Joab. Joab had killed Abner and Amasa, two military commanders, during ostensibly peaceful encounters. David specifically recalls this: “He killed them, shedding their blood in peacetime as if in battle…” Joab repeatedly used violence outside its proper bounds. Now the violence he wielded returns upon him. Even his grasping the altar cannot exempt him from accountability for deliberate bloodshed.

There is a subtler version with Adonijah. He had attempted to acquire the kingdom by circumventing David’s declared succession. Solomon nevertheless showed him mercy and essentially said, “Demonstrate that you’ve abandoned your ambition and you’ll live.” When Adonijah tries to acquire Abishag, whose possession could imply a claim upon David’s royal household—and therefore the throne, he once again grasps for the kingship. It costs him his life.

Then there’s Shimei. He once violently rejected David’s kingship, cursing God’s anointed king as David fled Jerusalem. Solomon nevertheless gives him a clearly defined boundary and allows him to live safely within it. Shimei knowingly crosses the boundary he swore to observe. His own oath becomes the standard by which he is judged.

And that’s the important nuance of middah k’neged middah. It isn’t quite karma. Karma can be popularly understood as an impersonal cosmic mechanism: what goes around comes around. Middah k’neged middah is connected to moral order and divine justice. The consequence reveals something about the offense. Judgment becomes almost revelatory: the fruit exposes the nature of the seed.

Solomon doesn’t begin with a clean slate. He inherits David’s kingdom. But he also inherits David’s relationships, promises, enemies, loyalties, compromises, deferred judgments, and unresolved problems. That’s life. It’s the same lesson I learned when I inherited the hidden messes of a business.

But that same principle applies to almost every aspect of life. I arrive at today’s chapter of my life carrying consequences generated in yesterday’s chapters—some created by me, some created by others before me.

Solomon cannot change what David did, but he can decide what he will do with what David left him. That’s a good reminder for my day. I can spend enormous amounts of emotional energy wishing the past had been different.

If only they hadn’t…
If only I hadn’t…
If only that hadn’t happened…
If only someone had dealt with this years ago…

Solomon doesn’t have that luxury. Solomon has to govern from here, and that’s why David’s first instruction matters more than all the political instructions that follow: “Walk in obedience to Him.”

Before David gives Solomon the list of problems, he gives him his compass. Because Solomon can’t navigate inherited complexity merely by reacting to it. He needs something outside himself by which to steer.

And, looking back, I can say the same thing. The founder of our company established himself as a spiritual mentor long before he handed me a business. Which means that long before he left a mess to address, he gave me a compass. For that, I am eternally grateful.

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