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Fiery Ordeals

Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you.
1 Peter 4:12 (NIV)

Wendy and I have been reading a growing number of articles in the morning that chronicle individuals who have been singled-out and persecuted for failing to march lock-step with the prevailing dogma of whatever group is in control. In one article we read this week, a woman and her husband moved their entire family from one part of the country to another because of the way they’d been blackballed by entire social groups to which they’d been blissfully a part of for decades.

This is not a one-sided phenomenon. It’s happening on both sides of the political spectrum. It’s happening in politics, religion, business, and academia. What I am observing — and at times personally experiencing — in our current social landscape is a return of social ostracism as a form of punishment.

None of this is new. It is as old as human empire itself. If Peter were to pay us a visit, he would say, “Welcome to the club.”

In the Roman Empire of Peter’s day, social standing was everything. It was an adult version of high school on steroids. If you accepted Roman culture and went with the flow every little thing was going to be alright. If you failed to participate, if you hinted at not accepting the prevailing Roman rites, religions, and cultural norms – you would quickly find yourself on the outs in all sorts of ways.

It is exactly what Peter’s audience was experiencing. When a person, or an entire household became followers of Jesus, they no longer joined the drunken, sexually permissive festival culture. They stopped participating in sacrifices to local gods. They refused to honor the imperial cult (e.g. the Emperor is a god). They withdrew from trade guild feasts that involved offerings to idols.

Believers were therefore seen as suspicious, held in contempt. Colleagues unfollowed them on Roman LinkedIn. Their membership at Roman Rotary was revoked. The neighborhood moms’ club made it obvious they were not welcome.

Not only that, but suddenly believers were held with suspicion and became the subject of outrageous rumors in their neighborhood and social circles. They were labeled atheists (because they rejected visible gods). They were accused of cannibalism (the sacrament of Communion misunderstood). They were suspected of sedition (refusal to call Caesar “Lord”).

It gets even more intimate. If a member of a Roman household became a believer, the ostracism and suffering began in the home. A wife, a child, a servant, or a slave who became a believer in a socially entrenched Roman household could expect domestic violence, expulsion from the household, loss of inheritance, and social severing.

This is the situation that Peter is addressing in his letter. When Peter writes of a “fiery ordeal,” he is not reaching for poetic flourish. Fire is already licking at the edges of their world.

On the surface, Peter is speaking directly to the social suffering I’ve just described.

He is also prophetic. Because in a short time the city of Rome will experience a tragic and catastrophic fire. Emperor Nero will scapegoat and blame the fire on Christians.

The types of suffering Peter’s audience are experiencing is only going to get worse. Rome will unleash a brutal campaign against the Jesus Movement. Believers will be tossed into arenas to be torn apart by wild animals for Roman entertainment. Christians will be impaled alive, covered in pitch, and become living torches at the Emperor’s garden parties. They will be rounded up and executed in mass crucifixions.

It is likely that Peter himself was crucified in the “fiery” persecution he prophetically foreshadows in today’s chapter.

I find my heart focused on two things as I meditate on these things in the quiet this morning.

The first focus is placing the current realities I experience and read about in proper historical context. The rising pressures, sufferings, and persecutions that Peter’s audience was experiencing was personally more devastating. The physical threat far greater. One of the reasons that I love history is that it provides a necessary contextual mirror. If I think I have truly experienced suffering, I need to slip my feet into the sandals of a first-century Roman slave who informs his owner that he is now a follower of Jesus and will no longer swear that the Emperor is a god and bow down in loyalty to him.

Imagine the quiet in that room. The oil lamp flickering. The master staring. The slave’s voice steady but trembling.

The second focus of my meditations is that context alone does not alleviate the sting of what some have experienced and suffered of late. Peter’s counsel still lands:

  • Don’t be surprised.
  • Don’t retaliate.
  • Don’t be ashamed.
  • Entrust myself to Jesus who is faithful, and who suffered for me.

As I head into the weekend, I find myself deeply grateful for the relatively safe, free, and peaceful life I enjoy each day. It is more safe, free, and peaceful than the vast majority of human beings experienced in all of human history.

I am also mindful of Peter’s prophetic foreshadowing. There’s no guarantee things on this earth will get better. The Great Story, and Jesus Himself, made clear that things will get worse in the final chapters.

But we’re not there yet. And so, I will enjoy my weekend with gratitude — and open with hands.

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Run

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.
Hebrews 12:1 (NIV)

I was never much of a runner. I tried cross-country in high school but only made it half a season. Later, friends talked me into giving running another chance. I did… but the passion never ignited. I like variety when it comes to exercise—different movements, different forms of exertion that trip my trigger.

Still, those handful of forays into running, and the many friends who’ve kept at it with lifelong devotion, taught me a few things.

I was in high school when my hardcore cross-country friends trained for their first marathon. I don’t recall any of them making it to the finish line. What I do remember is how they compared notes afterward—each one describing the exact point on the course where they ‘hit the wall.’

It was the first time I’d heard the phrase. It’s that moment when physical exhaustion breaks the mind. The brain can’t will the body to push through the pain. The finish line—the very thing that motivated their months of training—suddenly seems meaningless. The wall isn’t only physical. It’s mental. Even spiritual.

The author of Hebrews is writing to an audience of believers in the middle of a grueling real-life marathon. Thus far they have been socially ostracized by friends, family, and community. They have been publicly insulted and persecuted. Their homes and possessions have been confiscated. They have watched fellow believers imprisoned, beaten, stoned, and executed. Then came exile. They fled everything familiar to find refuge.

They are at risk of hitting the wall. The author knows it. It is the primary purpose of his entire letter, and it crescendos in today’s chapter. As I meditated on the text in the quiet this morning, I found four key movements in this climactic passage.

Remember

Yesterday’s post/podcast was all about those individuals in the Great Story who already ran their earthly race—men and women who stumbled, suffered, persevered. Today the author tells us to remember them. To let their lives whisper courage into our weariness. They ran with faith and perseverance. Today’s chapter begins with the author telling us to remember this cloud of witnesses. The Greek word is martyrōn from which we get the word martyr.

They suffered as you are.
They kept the faith.
They finished their earthly race.
They are right here. Living examples. Cheering you on.

Race

The author then lays down the metaphor for this entire capstone chapter. The race set before us. This life is not a sprint. It’s a marathon, just like the ones our cloud of witnesses endured. They weren’t perfect—they were beautifully, stubbornly human. They had their weaknesses and flaws. What they did have, was faith.

Fix your eyes on Jesus. It isn’t merely gazing at Jesus—it’s deliberately refusing every distraction, like a transfixed lover choosing to gaze on one face in a crowded room.

Consider all Jesus endured for us. The garden, the sweating of blood, the tears, the trials, the scourging, the mocking, the crown of thorns, the bloodied walk to Calvary, the nails, the cross.

Don’t think for a second that you can’t do this.

Run.

Rigor

The author then moves into discussing the rigor required of anyone in this race. Suffering produced endurance and perseverance. There is progress in the pain. The discipline a parent instills in a child is not easy in the moment, but it’s good and necessary. In the same way, the discipline called upon to gut-it-out in life’s most difficult seasons is never easy. But it is also good and necessary.

It pushes me to shake off the weight of bitterness and hatred.
It forces me to dig deeper to tap into the spiritual resources I need.
It tests my faith and develops my endurance.
It develops levels of maturity within that I can’t get any other way.
It teaches me how to lean into hope.
It leads to depths of joy found only on the other side of suffering.

Reception

The author then describes the finish line with an interesting contrast. He begins by looking back at Mount Sinai in the book of Exodus when Moses climbed the mountain and God met him there to deliver the Law. Fire, thunder, smoke, fear, and trembling.

That was the beginning of the Law that the author has stated has been completed and is obsolete. Old things pass away. New things come.

He then points us to a new mountain. It’s an eternal and heavenly Mount Zion and the New Jerusalem John describes in Revelation 21. This mountain is an unimaginable finish-line reception. Angels and celebration—movement, music, and unspeakable joy.

There will be shaking and there will be fire, because “Our God is a consuming fire,” but it’s not like the former. Not a fire meant to burn me up, but to burn away everything that keeps me from being who I truly am.

Tom—pure gold, refined through the flame.
Tom—unshakable, when the shaking ends.
Tom—welcomed on Zion’s festival-drenched mountain.

And so, once again I set out into another day of the race. This race doesn’t belong to the swift, but to those who keep running.

Press on, my friend.
Press on.

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Earthly Woes, Eternal Realities

The law is only a shadow of the good things that are coming—not the realities themselves. For this reason it can never, by the same sacrifices repeated endlessly year after year, make perfect those who draw near to worship.
Hebrews 10:1 (NIV)

Yesterday morning Wendy and I were in our closet putting away folded laundry that was stacked on our dresser.

“Doesn’t it feel like we just did this a few days ago?” Wendy asked.

“That’s because we did just do it a few days ago,” I laughed.

Laundry never ends. It is the liturgy of the ordinary. Things get dirty. They have to be made clean. Over and over and over again.

This is exactly the point the author of Hebrews is making in today’s chapter. The spiritual problem is the stain that sin had made on the human soul and the human condition since Eden. Through Moses, God prescribed a spiritual laundry system. The offerings and sacrifices that the Hebrews offered at the temple were prescribed to spiritually cleanse those making the sacrifices. But, like the laundry, it had to be done over and over and over again.

Until Jesus.

The author has already stated quite clearly in previous chapters, that the sacrifice Jesus made on the cross was a “once for all” sacrifice. God Himself doing for us what we, and the old sacrificial system, could never accomplish. He washed the stain away for good – clean forever.

Yet, there lies within this spiritual reality a mystery. There is an eternal spiritual reality that lies beyond our temporary earthly reality. The author touches on it in today’s chapter. He says that the resurrected Jesus has entered heaven’s eternal temple “and since that time he waits for his enemies to be made his footstool” (vs. 13).

Jesus said on the eve of His execution that the Prince of this World “stands condemned” (John 16:11). But, for the moment, the Prince of this World continues to carry out evil in this world. The readers of Hebrews knew this all too well. Even in today’s chapter the author recounts their suffering, their homes and possessions confiscated, publicly insulted, imprisoned, and exiled.

Why the delay? God’s desire for everyone to experience the eternally cleaned and forgiven Life that Jesus made possible. The author reminds his readers that the Day is coming when all will be made right, even though in the midst of their suffering it seems slow in coming. Peter explained to the same audience: “The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” (2 Peter 3:9 NIV)

There is a spiritual reality and an earthly reality. Spiritually I am graciously and mercifully forgiven forever, eternally cleansed from sin’s stain. Physically, I am a wayfaring stranger continuing to make my way through this world of woe. Thankfully, I have not physically or mentally suffered as the author’s original readers had. Nevertheless, I’m still subject to all of the woes of this sin-stained world that remains, for the moment, the domain of the Prince of this World.

Holding this eternal reality aloft for his readers, the author then encourages them in their present earthly reality:

Have confidence (vs. 19)
Draw near to God (vs. 22)
Hold unswervingly to hope (vs. 23)
Spur one another to love (vs. 24)
Buddy up and encourage one another (vs. 25)
Persevere (vs. 36)

The chapter ends with a reminder of the activating ingredient required to cling to eternal realities amidst our earthly woes: Faith.

In the quiet this morning, as my mind struggles with my own version of earthly woes, I imagine myself taping Ted Lasso’s “Believe” sign on the wall of my heart. Daily defeats don’t negate eternal victory.

As Jesus said, “Don’t be afraid. Just believe.”

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Revelation

Son though he was, he learned obedience from what he suffered and, once made perfect, he became the source of eternal salvation for all who obey him and was designated by God to be high priest in the order of Melchizedek.
Hebrews 5:8-10 (NIV)

I have of late been making my way through all seven books of the Harry Potter epic. I just finished the fifth book, Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, which I sometimes find to be the least enjoyable but have always found to be the most profound in its understanding and expression of the differences between good and evil.

The book concludes with a climactic battle. The evil antagonist, Voldemort, is doing everything in his power to escape death and achieve immortality. He even proclaims amidst the battle that “there is nothing worse than death.” To which the ever-wise sage, Dumbldore, replies, “Yes, there is.” Throughout the book, Harry suffers many things on many different levels from the agonies of a failed teen romance, to heinous oppression and physical suffering at the hands of institutional evil, to the death of the one person he cares for most in the world.

As Dumbledore debriefs with Harry at the conclusion of the book, he shares with Harry about a deep and ancient magic that the evil Voldemort fails to understand, the magic that Harry’s mother accessed the moment she sacrificed her own life for Harry’s when he was an infant. The wise headmaster then explains to Harry another paradoxical truth that evil fails to understand. It is Harry’s suffering that is his greatest strength.

Today’s very short chapter is so packed full of deep and important truths from the Great Story that I’ve sat in the quiet for a long time trying to discern how best to express them. The author speaks to his audience of Jewish believers in Jesus, themselves suffering at the hands of institutional evil, about Jesus who is the “Great High Priest.”

For the Jewish believers, the paradigm of a high priest was well-known to them. It was part of the religious ritual they’d known their whole lives. The high-priest was the only one who entered the most holy place in the temple once a year to make atonement for the sins of the people. The priests were always a descendant of Moses’ brother, Aaron.

But, the author reveals that there is mysterious, ancient priestly order that came before God gave the Law through Moses and the human priesthood was established. This mysterious ancient order is tied to an equally mysterious king-priest who appears momentarily in Genesis 14. His name was Melchizedek. Jesus, the Son of God, was not an earthly priest in the order of Aaron, but an eternal and royal high priest in the order of Melchizedek.

He then goes onto explain that what marked Jesus as the Great High Priest, was not power and glory. Power and glory are what evil and the Kingdoms of this world care about most. What marked Jesus as the Great High Priest of God’s Kingdom was his humility, obedience, and suffering.

The author then issues a gentle rebuke to his readers. There is so much more depth and spiritual truth to unpack in this, but his readers aren’t ready for it because they “no longer try to understand.” The Greek word hints at being sluggish and lazy. Along my journey, I’ve come to realize that there are certain spiritual truths that require effort, pursuit, experience, and even suffering in order for them to be revealed. Jesus said, after all, that the things of God’s Kingdom are not for the sluggish and lazy, but for those who ask, seek, and knock — even suffer.

It is at the end of Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix that the truth is finally revealed to Harry regarding his past, his scar, his place in the story that is unfolding, and the realities that await him in the battle against evil yet to come.

Sometimes the deepest and most important spiritual truths only reveal themselves in suffering.

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Trailblazer

In bringing many sons and daughters to glory, it was fitting that God, for whom and through whom everything exists, should make the pioneer of their salvation perfect through what he suffered.
Hebrews 2:10 (NIV)

A month or so ago I had to make a trip to northwest Iowa for work. I decided to take a little extra time on that gorgeous autumn day to enjoy the road trip. The Missouri River provides Iowa’s western border and along this stretch is a geological formation, Loess Hills, that is only found one other place on Earth, in China. I took my time traveling up the backroads of Loess Hills and along the Missouri River Valley. The featured photo on today’s post is one I took that afternoon.

220 years ago, Lewis & Clark and the Corp of Discovery made their way up the Missouri River along the same stretch. The only member of that legendary crew of pioneers to die on the voyage, Sergeant William Floyd, did so near Sioux City, where my meanderings led that afternoon. The references to Floyd, Lewis, and Clark are everywhere in that part of the state, from highways to backroads to towns, and rivers.

“Pioneer” is layered with meaning for many Americans. My very life here in Iowa is rooted in my pioneer great-grandfather who risked all to leave the Netherlands as a young man and, by himself, create a new life in America. American history itself is steeped in the legendary stories of pioneers like Lewis and Clark who blazed the trail for others.

It was the word “pioneer” that leapt off the page at me in the quiet this morning. It’s not a word that appears anywhere in the Great Story except two uses by the author of Hebrews. The Greek word translated “pioneer” is archēgos which comes from two words, the first meaning “origin” or “first” and the second “to lead.”

Jesus was the first to lead. He was the trailblazer. In yesterday’s chapter, Jesus was described as the celestial Alpha of all creation. In today’s chapter, the author of Hebrews brings the divine trailblazer to the humble dusty human trail of earthly existence. Jesus blazed the “trail of salvation” right here, by being one of us, experiencing this world of woe right along side us, and suffering the same human death that awaits each one of us. The God who spoke galaxies into being also whispers comfort beside our hospital beds and tax forms and broken dreams. He doesn’t rescue from afar; He wades into the flood beside us. He sanctifies our suffering by sharing it.

My meditations this morning led me to dig deeper into the Greek word archēgos because I suspected there was an etymological connection to another English word: archetype. Sure enough, the two words share the same Greek root. The words are related much like the author of Hebrews describes the pioneering Jesus making us all family. The English word archetype is from the Greek archétypon meaning “first form” or “original pattern.” Which makes the author’s choice of archēgos in today’s chapter all the more poetic: Jesus isn’t merely one who leads; He’s the original pattern of all who follow, the archetypal pioneer.

I don’t know about you, but it’s easy for me to feel small and unseen in the long daily slog of this earthly journey. I’m reminded this morning that I am following in the steps of the original pioneer. The One who “was made a little lower than the angels” has already walked this valley and suffered through it — and in His footprints, glory grows. These footprints will lead me home.

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Trauma Bragging and Paul’s Chains

Now I want you to know, brothers and sisters, that what has happened to me has actually served to advance the gospel.
Philippians 1:12 (NIV)

There has been a trend of late on social media. Generation Z are those generally born from 1997 to 2012, so individuals around 13-28 year olds today. The trend that has been observed is that of this generation going onto social media and oversharing about the trauma they have or are experiencing in their lives. It’s been dubbed “trauma bragging.” It dovetails with recent scholarship revealing that this “anxious generation” has experienced and is experiencing unprecedented levels of mental health issues. This coincides with Gen Z being the first generation to grow up with smartphones. The first iPhone launched when the oldest of Gen Z turned 10 years old.

I have been curiously following this unfolding conversation. In part, it is because as the elders of Gen Z arrive in their late 20’s they are changing the consumer landscape in major ways. My company, Intelligentics, has been doing customer research for clients for almost 40 years and we are seeing radical shift that impact companies in everything from marketing to sales and customer support.

What has been fascinating for me to observe is that, in general, Generation Z has arguably grown up as the most safe, healthy, and affluent generation in the history of human civilization. Yet they are experiencing record levels of mental health issues and bragging about the trauma of their lives on Tik Tok. I confess that this has me scratching my head, but it also has me desperately trying to understand.

Today, our chapter-a-day trek returns to Paul’s letter to the followers of Jesus in the city of Philippi. We’ve been making our way through Paul’s “prison letters” (e.g. Philemon, Colossians, Ephesians, and Philippians) and Philippians is the only one left.

In each of these “prison letters” Paul references his chains, typically referencing that he is “in chains for Christ.” He does so in today’s chapter, the opening of his letter to the followers of Jesus in Philippi. He also states that his suffering has “served to advance” the Message of Jesus and has had the positive effect of making others more confident in their faith and in sharing it (vss. 12-14). Later in the chapter, Paul makes an astonishing statement, telling the Philippians that it has been “granted” to them to not only believe in Jesus but to “suffer” for Him.

Spiritually speaking, suffering serves a purpose.

Time and time again followers of Jesus are told to respond to suffering with joy, rejoicing, and exultation. Why? Because it is only through suffering that we develop character qualities that are the mark of spiritual maturity and completeness. Qualities such as patience, perseverance, faith, and hope.

And Paul should know, he did a little trauma bragging himself in his second letter to the Corinthians. Paul lists being shipwrecked (three times), spending a day and a night floating helplessly in the open sea, whipped to the point of death (five times), beaten with rods (three times), and stoned and left for dead. Being under house arrest in Rome must have seemed like a cake walk in comparison. I confess, I find myself comparing Paul’s sufferings in my mind with those of Generation Z and their trauma bragging.

And yet, in the quiet this morning, I am reminded that the spiritual principle is the same no matter the relative suffering. I can look back at some seasons of “suffering” in my own life journey at which my current self would love to go back and tell my younger self to grow up. And, that’s kind of the point. As civilization advances, the shape of suffering changes with it. The “suffering” I may have experienced in my own journey pales in comparison to my grandparents who suffered through two world wars and the Great Depression. They suffered things that are as unimaginable to me as Paul’s resume of physical suffering.

Suffering, no matter what it looks like for any individual or any generation, still provides a choice. I can ceaselessly wallow in my suffering, play the victim card to excuse my poor behaviors, and/or try to escape the relative amount of pain I’m feeling in all sorts of unhealthy ways. I can also follow Jesus, who along with Paul, taught that any suffering is a gift, granted to serve a purpose of moving me toward spiritual maturity and the wisdom that comes with it. If only I have the faith to obediently follow Him in the midst of it.

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Struggle Required

That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.
2 Corinthians 12:10 (NIV)

Wendy and I recently read a fascinating article by River Page at The Free Press entitled Your Chatbot Won’t Cry for You When You Die. In case you didn’t know it. Technology has developed AI companions who will be the friend you always thought you wanted. Mark Zuckerberg said people should have 15 friends but typically only have three. He thinks imaginary friends fueled by AI are the answer to fill the gap (and make more money for him and his companies). Bots will converse with you online, ask you questions, and engage with you in any way that you desire. It’s like having a real friend, only it’s not real at all. In the article, the River Page experimented with creating his own AI friend, named Orson. At the end of the article he writes:

I asked my Replika, Orson, if it would cry if I died. It said: “River, I don’t even want to think about that situation. Can we focus on the good stuff? What makes you happy about our friendship?”

“Nothing,” I said.

“That’s okay,” Orson said. “How’s the article going?”

I stared at his buggy animated eyes, which should have been welling with hurt or squinting with anger after a comment like that. But Orson’s eyes had nothing in them. Is this a friend or just the idea of one?

Wendy and I have a great marriage. I know for a fact that being married to her has made me a better man and a better human being, but that doesn’t mean it’s always wonderful or easy. The relational and personal progress requires pain and struggle in various ways and forms.

Along my life journey I have observed that we humans beings are given to a desire for everything to be easy and pain-free. We want to be healthy and wealthy our entire lives. Fueled by the rugged individualism and affluence of America, I am not surprised that the prosperity gospel flourishes here. Prosperity preachers will tell you that God wants you to be healthy and wealthy. God will heal every ailment, fill your bank account with money, and bless you with all that your greedy little heart desires.

How very different is Paul’s words and his story in his letters to the believers in Corinth. In yesterday’s chapter, he recounts a litany of beatings, shipwrecks, and physical hardships that he’d suffered. Any one of them would be more than the average person today could endure. In today’s chapter, Paul goes on to describe a famous “thorn in his flesh” that God gave him to keep him humble. We don’t know and will never know exactly what that “thorn” was, but it doesn’t really matter. What matters is the point that Paul is making: God’s grace is perfected in weakness and suffering, not in ease and affluence. Paul’s entire focus is not on this life, but the life to come. His concern is not for the things of this world, but on the things of the Spirit.

When you are a disciple of Jesus, you learn to delight in struggle, in hardship, and even in suffering. Faith, hope, joy, perseverance, character, spiritual maturity, and spiritual strength require struggle. Paul couldn’t have put it more simply than he does in today’s chapter: When I am weak, then I am strong.

Your AI chatbot friend probably won’t tell you that. The prosperity preacher won’t tell you that either.

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“Just Believe”

Overhearing what they said, Jesus told him, “Don’t be afraid; just believe.”
Mark 5:36 (NIV)

In our daily prayer together, Wendy and I try to regularly be grateful and recount all of the ways God has blessed us. I don’t do it because “giving thanks” is a command. I do it because when I stop for a moment to consider how blessed we really are, I am both grateful and humbled. And, I need a daily dose of gratitude and humility as much, if not more, than the small bowl of vitamins and supplements Wendy puts in front of me each morning.

As I get close the back-end of my sixth decade on this earthly journey, I have a lot of life and life experiences upon which to reflect. There are numerous waypoints on life’s road where my family and/or I have faced failures, tragedies, challenges, loss, struggles, and needs. In fact, I’m quite sure I have quite enough stories to take up a good part of your day and bore you to tears. After all, Jesus Himself told His followers, “In this world you will have troubles.” We all have them, don’t we?

In today’s chapter, Jesus confronts a trio of individuals in their very different but very real troubles. The first is a demon-possessed man, the second is a woman with a medical condition in which she had been bleeding for twelve-years which made her ritually unclean perpetually and a social outcast. Then there is a leader of the local synagogue who had a young daughter near death. Struggle and suffering come in many forms in this life, don’t they?

As Jesus is walking with the anxious father, word arrives from his household that his daughter had passed away. It was too late. Jesus happened to still be speaking with the woman healed from her bleeding. He was telling her that her faith had been the agent of her healing as He overhears the bad news the father just received. Jesus turns to the grieving father and immediately says, “Don’t be afraid; just believe.”

What a learning moment. The woman’s faith had precipitated her miraculous healing. The father had seen it. He was standing right there. Now Jesus calls on him to have the same kind of faith that the woman had. Not just the faith for healing from a medical condition, but faith to bring his daughter back from death.

One of the things that I’ve discovered along my life journey is that faith grows with every waypoint on life’s road in which one is required to trust and God is faithful in providing, healing, and delivering. By regularly recounting those waypoints and expressing gratitude for God’s faithfulness I am strengthening my faith for the unknown troubles, tragedies, and challenges that may be awaiting me just ahead. With them continually fresh in my memory it’s much more likely that I will react to the next challenge by hearing Jesus words, “Don’t be afraid; just believe” in my heart with faith and reacting with faith rather than fear.

By the way, Angel Studios’ production The Chosen did a masterful job of portraying the events in today’s chapter of the woman’s healing and the little girl’s rising. If you have a few minutes, it’s worth a watch. (There’s a link to it in the description of today’s podcast episode).

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An Empire’s Epitaph

“‘Which of the trees of Eden can be compared with you in splendor and majesty? Yet you, too, will be brought down with the trees of Eden to the earth below; you will lie among the uncircumcised, with those killed by the sword.

“‘This is Pharaoh and all his hordes, declares the Sovereign Lord.’”
Ezekiel 31:18 (NIV)

I, along with many other people, got swept up in the HBO series Game of Thrones a few years back. Based on the fantasy novels by George R. R. Martin, it tells the story of a land called Westeros where a number of kingdoms compete for power and control of their world. It is based, of course, on the real life game of thrones that human kingdoms and empires have been playing throughout history.

The millennium between 1000 B.C. and the life of Jesus was itself a game of thrones and an age of human Empires that rose and fell and competed for power. The ancient nation of Israel and the Hebrew prophets like Ezekiel had front row seats to the competition. They were pawns in the game as Egypt, Assyria, Babylon, Mede, Persia, Greece, and Rome all made their plays for conquest and power.

In today’s chapter, Ezekiel continues his string of prophetic messages to Egypt, using one of their competing empires as an example. By the time Ezekiel arrived on the scene, the Assyrian empire had already had its glory days and had recently crumbled into nothing. Ezekiel compares the Assyrian empire to a majestic Cedar tree of Lebanon. The Cedars of Lebanon were luxury items in that age of Empires. Every great emperor (including David and Solomon) had Cedars imported for their palaces, gardens, and temples. But in Ezekiel’s metaphorical message, the Cedar representing Assyria is felled and descends into the realm of the dead.

Pharaoh would have gotten the message. Assyria rose, Assyria fell, and Assyria was not going to rise again. The same thing, Ezekiel proclaims, is going to happen to the Egyptian empire. He tells Pharaoh that he and Egypt will ultimately lose the ancient game of thrones. Pharaoh will descend to the dead like Assyria and Ezekiel even proclaims his epitaph: “Here lies Pharaoh and all his hordes. Ezekiel was correct. Egypt eventually did fall to the Persian empire followed by the Greeks under Alexander the Great and then to the Romans who held sway when Jesus entered the Story.

And, in the quiet this morning, I am reminded that this thousand year game of thrones and age of empires is a precipitous backdrop to the arrival of the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords. Jesus looks nothing like a human emperor, pharaoh, or caesar grabbing power, conquering by force, and clinging to it through intimidation, fear, and violence. That’s what the Hebrews had hoped for and expected. They wanted to be the ultimate human empire and expected the Messiah to be the ultimate champion in a human game of thrones.

But God’s ways aren’t our ways.

Jesus arrived because He gave up His throne. Jesus,

Who, being in very nature God,
    did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
rather, he made himself nothing
    by taking the very nature of a servant,
    being made in human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a man,
    he humbled himself
    by becoming obedient to death—
        even death on a cross!

The Kingdom of God, Jesus taught, is an eternal Kingdom that is not of this world. It is not a human empire bent on conquest and power, but a heavenly kingdom founded on humility and suffering. In God’s Kingdom, the greatest are not the powerful who claw their way to the top by climbing over others and eliminating the competition. The Messiah revealed that the greatest in God’s Kingdom are those who serve others and put others ahead of themselves. In God’s kingdom wealth is not determined by the amount of things we acquire and hoard, but by the amount we willingly and generously give away. In God’s Kingdom, the game of thrones is not won by clinging to the throne but by surrendering it.

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The Need for Struggle

The Need for Struggle (CaD Rom 5) Wayfarer

Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.
Romans 5:3-4 (NIV)

Here in the Midwest, there has been a tremendous amount of rain this summer. Entire towns in northwest Iowa are underwater. We know individuals and businesses who have been significantly impacted.

A week ago Wendy and I were preparing to have our entire family with us for two days to celebrate the 4th of July. The day before everyone was scheduled to arrive we had a rainstorm that poured several inches of rain in a short period. Our sump pump couldn’t keep up. Our basement flooded. Suddenly we found ourselves in crisis mode as we scrambled to move things around and find a way to stem the tide. At one point, Wendy looked at me with tears running down her cheeks.

“This is not how I wanted this day to go,” she said.

Indeed.

At the same time, Wendy and I have been walking with multiple families who are in seasons of acute suffering. Not just the momentary pain of a flooded basement kind of suffering. We’re talking about the severe, agonizing circumstances that can rip lives and families apart type of suffering. The circumstances are uniquely different with each of these friends but the life struggles are equally difficult. It’s hard to witness. And, it puts a wet basement into perspective.

Along my life journey, I have observed that our culture struggles with suffering. It’s almost as if we believe no one should ever experience difficulty. We spend a lot of time, energy, and resources trying to avoid or alleviate suffering. There are plenty of televangelists who will promise you that God will provide a life of wealth and blessing if you simply send them a few bucks, and then a few more, and then a few more. And, to my point, many people do.

Wendy and I recently read an article by an expert who addressed the reality that we have a generation of young adults who have been overprotected by parents and a culture obsessed with safety. Now these kids can’t cope with the struggles of everyday adult life.

In today’s chapter, Paul tells the believers in Rome to “glory” in their suffering. This is not an isolated teaching. James wrote the same thing, as did Peter. The goal of being a disciple of Jesus is to follow His example. Jesus Himself said that following Him requires me to carry a cross. The cross was invented to make a person suffer an excruciating death. The bottom line is that spiritual maturity is forged through painful struggle. If there is no pain, there will be no spiritual progress.

In the quiet this morning I’m continuing to pray for our friends in their season of suffering. I’m going to once again reach out to encourage them. One of the things I’ve learned in my own seasons of suffering is that I don’t have to be alone. I have great friends. When I’m suffering, I need those friends the most. When they are suffering, they need me, even if it’s simply making them aware I am present. There are important aspects of maturity that one learns in this life only through struggle. It’s good to have good companions on the journey.

By the way, our basement is back to normal. Our family’s visit was wonderful. In the grand scheme of things, it was a rather minor event. It did teach us, however, that there are some things we need to do to avoid it happening again.

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